Maturity

So I stumbled across a friend and he said to me "Wah Admund, I read your blog the other day, you mature a lot." My immediate answer was "My blog got porn?? Where? Where? I wanna see it too..." (Hint: It's right after a photo) Then came an awkward reply "No la, I mean in terms of writing compared to last time. Last time, after a while stop and came back you said you improve and better and new la. All sort of things but this time it's different you just go straight into writing the point and I enjoyed it." Okay so the first thing that came to my mind was "You read my blog since long ago? Wow! How long have I been writing?" Guess what? It's more than FOUR YEARS!!!! I never knew I have been blogging for 4 years already. I would like to take this opportunity to thank all my avid loyal fans out there. I don't know how much you read but one thing for sure, I have blogged on almost all my feelings in here before. So thank you blogger for my much needed space. I started drifting from topic again, aren't I?

Coming back to maturity, I'm seeing kids (especially girls) in their early teens already try to act tough or try to dress like what they see in shows and probably too revealing. I'm not saying revealing is not good, as a guy point of view, reveal at such a young age probably I won't be able to see anything also. Sorry. Honest statement. If you wanna be an adult, I think you have to start mentally. Once you are mentally strong, the way you look at things will also change. One view on mental maturity is to stand strong no matter how people try to affect you... well, not too strong if not you will only become stubborn. I like girls who has a fine mind. They know what they want and don't beat around the bush much. I find that sexy~ I'm sure lots of guys find that sexy too.

I also realise that if you wanna be mature, you don't have to tell everyone that you are going to be different and its the new you kind of stuffs. Yea, I used to do that a lot because I always wanna keep changing and when I feel I didn't, I would tell myself that I already changed which is probably the STUPIDIEST thing to do. I'm not saying I'm mature now as I still have much to learn. Maturity don't occur overnight, it occur by experience. The people you going to meet, the people that save your ass and the people that bring you pain. These 3 people are the one that gonna affect how you respond to your growth. You are not going to meet all these 3 at the same time neither 3 people are going to change your mind. You need like 0.1% of the world population to do that. Remember baby steps last log?? Yes, exactly.

The people you going to meet are your first impressions. How you present yourself to them is important. If you fail in an interview, probably 60% is because of your first impressions. We always say don't judge a book by its cover, turns out THEY DO JUDGE. So if you fail, take it as a step towards maturity, there got to be something does not suit the eye the person you just met.

The people that save your ass are one of the rarest of the 3 groups you going to meet in your life. Its the people that you called friends. They know where is your limit and most probably bust you out for those hangover days. Although some will not turn out but its the not turning up that probably makes you a step closer to maturity.

The people that bring you pain are most probably everyone else. Most colleagues and exes belongs to this group. At the beginning, they will try to take your heart, once they have it, they will stab it or crush it away like a used paper. Thankfully, the heart can be patched and it becomes harder to be crushed after a few stabs/crush.

All in all, maturity is something you cannot learn. It's by experience. However, it does not mean you should be afraid of it and refuse to socialise. If you don't socialise, how you going to become someone mature? You wanna be stucked as a Pokemon master like me is it?? (Yes, I captured all 151 Pokemon in Google Maps in less than 24 hours, here's the proof below - it might be the only thing I'm good at) =3



PS: If you're looking for porn at the first paragraph, it's right here. Enjoy!

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