Nice Guys Finish Last

You probably heard of this before. Why girls always go for the bad boys kind of stuffs. During the recent article I found from Yahoo! interviews some of the women why they prefer bad boys over nice guys and here are the Top 5 reasons. Just nice for Valentine's Day self-improvement right??

1. It's hard for some of us to trust a Nice Guy. Not because they're not trustworthy -- in fact, it's quite the opposite. The more trustworthy a guy seems, the harder it may be for a woman to actually believe that they're as good as they seem. See, women get kind of jaded about the whole Nice Guy thing (after dating too many jerks), which means that it takes time for a woman to trust that a Nice Guy is, well, actually for reals.
2. Bad Boys care about themselves -- a lot -- and it makes us think they care about us.That's not a great thing in a relationship; however, it means that while the Nice Guy will bide his time, waiting for the right moment to ask a girl out, the Bad Boy will swoop in and tell her what he wants -- her. Not something that lends to real relationship material, but certainly makes it easier to decode what it is, exactly, he wants.
3. Nice Guys have their shit together. Bad Boys don't. Women like a challenge. A fixer-upper of a partner. While a Nice Guy has his bank accounts and steady job, a Bad Boy presents a challenge. And some women, well, they like a challenge.
4. Some women are afraid of intimacy. The one thing the Bad Boy rarely does is want to become intimate. If a woman is already gun-shy about commitment, she's met her mate in the Bad Boy who has no illusions of becoming marriage or long-term relationship material.
5. Some women suffer low self-esteem. Women who don't feel very good about themselves may not be able to handle the Nice Guy that treats her well. The Bad Boy, however, may treat her in the way she treats herself -- badly.

Well... for those nice guys out there don't feel disheartened. Here, listen to this, you'll feel much better...


No, no it's not what you think... Here's the original one... and I add the lyrics as well... Nice guys have nice ending also... Happy Valentine's Day!



Nice guys finish last,That's why I'll treat you like trash,It's not what I really wanna doBut, you only date bad guys so,I'll give it my best try to,Treat you the way you want me to
I never open a door,or pull out a chair.You can tell me how your day wasbut I don't really care.And if you ever get cold,you'll just have to hack it,Cause I'd be cold tooIf I gave you my jacket.Like WHOA, you ain't sittin up front,Front is for the homies you can sit in the trunk.I never answer my phone,Whenever you call itAnd when the waiter brings the billI never reach for my wallet.
Nice guys finish last,That's why I'll treat you like trash,It's not what I really wanna do.But, you only date bad guys so,I'll give it my best try to,Treat you the way you want me to.
And Ima BEAT you![ From: http://www.metrolyrics.com/nice-guys-lyrics-chester-see.html ]At every competition.Going out with the girlsYou better get my permission.Wait no, i take that back, you can't go,House is on tonightAnd that's my favorite show!Do I look fat in this dress?Hell yeah you do!Wait lemme speak your languageCows go Moo!Mooo Moooo Mooo MOOOO!
Nice guys finish last,That's why I'll treat you like trash,It's not what I really wanna do.But, you only date bad guys so,I'll give it my best try to,Treat you the way you want me to.
But behind the scenes she means the world to me.Wanna tell her that she's beautiful, and show her that she's loved.Hold her hand when she's scared, tell her how much I care...But that won't win her heart BECAUSE...
Nice guys finish last,That's why I'll treat you like trash,It's not what I really wanna do.But, you only date bad guys so,I'll give it my best try to,Treat you the way you want me to.

Comments

  1. Cindi AndersenMay 25, 2012 at 6:29 PM

    It is so true, I am sad to say. Most women are empty-headed bimbos with no concept of decency, shame or self-respect. They would throw away genuine love in favor of sex; think of all the trashy magazines geared toward female readers, and you will see that this is indeed the case (the dumbing-down of America is for both boys and girls).

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